i dont really know what a relationship is, because ive never had a boyfriend and ive never been in a real relationship. to me i think the definition of a relationship is a connection between two people whether it be a boy and another boy, a boy and a girl, or a girl and another girl who share a bond with eachother that supposedly likes or loves one another.
i think a lot of things come into mind when being in a relationship like honesty, trust, communication, dedication/hard work and of course sacrifice.
sacrifice/[sacrificing] to me is giving up something that is of great value to you/[occasionally not putting yourself first]. there are good and then there are bad sacrifices. good sacrifices are those that, in the “big picture,” dont sacrifice ones own integrity. sacrifices may either be simple or for stubborn people they may be tough.
the point that im trying to get out is that you shouldnt or cant sacrifice everything in a relationship. sometimes you need to keep things in your life, like for example your friends. you can sacrifice like going out, partying, drinking and all that but friends are the most precious people in your life besides family of course. whether they be your exs that have become your good friends who have no intention of getting back with you or just regular friends in general, you shouldnt give them up because they have been with you through the ups and the downs in your life. also, because they are your support system that will be and have always been there for you.
so for those of you who think sacrificing everything will be the best for your relationship, i suggest you think again. be smart about your decisions cause one day it could all end [hoepfully it doesnt], yet you realized that you sacrificed too much or everything and in the end… you end up with nothing but yourself.